... Just fiberglass or blown in cellulose won't do any good.
That's not quite correct.

A wall with no insulation will pass much more sound than a wall that is well insulated. Blown-in type insulation is quite a bit better than your standard pink fiberglass bats. This is due in part to their spray in nature which is very good at sealing off any nooks,holes and gaps that let air pass and thus sound.
(NuWool has a very good "spray-in-place" cellulose insulation product that reduces sound transmission tremendously. http://www.nuwool.com/products/celluloseinsulation/wallseal.html">WALLSEAL®)Take the Movie Theater for example. We've all been to a movie where the scene we're watching is rather quiet but the theater next to ours is showing a Jerry Bruckheimer movie with crazy action going on.
What sounds do you typically hear in that situation?Low booming noise from explosions and things of that nature…
However you typically don't hear any mid/high frequency information because the walls are usually insulated with 2" thick fiberglass and thick velvet material from top to bottom on either side of a cinderblock/concrete wall that is sealed off (it is even likely that there are two cinderblock walls with a 6” gap between them for fire code which would help reduce sound transmission even more).
If that wall were just sheet rock and 2x6's with no insulation you'd hear significantly more mid/high frequency information and it would be rather annoying.
Now the opposite situation...
a cheap hotel or apartment where you can hear the conversation from next door. Usually this is because the builders cut corners and didn't insulate the walls or there are huge air gaps under the adjoining doors or perhaps the ventilation system connects the air volumes of both rooms.
This brings us to the purpose and use for Resilient Channel…
Resilient ChannelResilient Channel works better at minimizing low frequency energy transfer between rooms by isolating the sheetrock from the structural frame work. This reduces sound transmision from vibration between rooms caused by low frequency sound waves.
....so...Blown-in cellulose or well stuffed pink fiberglass will be very beneficial for sound absorption. Combine this with Resilient channel and you’ll get even better reduction in sound transmission between rooms. Also warner’s suggestion of using more layers of sheetrock will also help reduce sound transmission.
The easiest thing would be to buy your wife and family a set of these Bose QuietComfort noise canceling headphones and save yourself time, trouble but maybe not money
