I wonder why having your dedicated lines connected to their own grounding rod would be dangerous? Is this because the neutral line is connected to the main ground and if so why would that cause a problem?
I'm not an electrician. Take my word for nothing.
You often want a single ground for a structure because different ground points have different effectiveness - a ground system is supposed to have 25 ohms or less, but two different systems won't have the same resistance, and that means potential voltages can form between the two systems. But it's not dangerous as far as I know - it's only annoying, because it can lead to hum. If anything, multiple grounds simply give extra ways for leaked voltage to leave. But if there is any question, consult an electrican. Given my experiences with electrcians, consult two, because a LOT of these guys seem to go on hearsay and rumor and I've gotten my share of wild answers from some of these guys.
If you install your own stuff, find and read your local code. Ground systems have specs that need to be followed. You want to exceed these specs: thicker wire, thicker ground rod if you use one, deeper hole. If you use an electrcian, find and read your local code. And make bloody sure he follows it. For example, if you have multiple grounding rods in the earth, they should be at least 6 feet apart.
If your hot or neutral line is connected to ground, that's BAD.
If you bring in cable TV, get them to connect their ground to whichever one you use for your stereo - you can get wicked hum otherwise.
I'm not an electrician. Take my word for nothing.