Several comments:
Balanced I/O isn't readily feasible. The circuit board isn't designed for it. I'm not aware of any factory mods to provide it. And the Stratos, despite the XLR connectors, doesn't have a truly balanced input.
Many comment that the Tempest's sonic signature is "tube-like". I don't know, as I haven't used a tube pre yet. Maybe this winter I'll build one to the designs I worked out nearly 2 years ago. No gripes about my Tempest, though, aside from source switching not being remoted.
I don't hear the "vvvvv", but my low-level hearing is deficient.
My remote is a Symphonic Line branded unit. It's about to be retired, as I've "taught" my Pioneer PDP-4250 TV remote to perform its function.
As others note, Tempest Extreme version is relevant only if you're into vinyl. The technical differences are increased phono stage gain (via a Darlington conversion of the phono stage's output transistor) and (if you choose) a shielded power transformer. Given my hearing deficiencies, I did the former but not the latter.
Can't comment on HT bypass - don't have it.
--Karl