Thanks Josh.
Mike Galusha did a balanced to unbalanced conversion on a Behringer I bought from him some time ago. But I don't have it any longer, so I only had to go by my memory of how he'd wired it.
Experimenting would be fine if I had XLR's to do it with. But I'm taking the output of a Sony DFP-3000 SDDS cinema processor out to a Proceed AVP2. The Sony is commercial theater gear, the Proceed isn't. The Sony's output is through a DB25 connector. So I'm having to solder up IC's to the backside of a DB25 plug. Which is lots of little pins that are close enough together to make soldering, unsoldering, & re-soldering more hassle than it'd be worth.
Besides, film playback isn't so easy & instantaneous as say CD/DVD or even LP playback. Would make a/b'ing a bit of a bitch.
I think I'll just stick with trying the cold & ground together. If that works fine, then that's what'll be done.