Ok, I think I've beat this horse to death, but one more. I've found the annoying vocal harshness that bothers me is very recording specific. So I think that's the problem. I think these speakers are ruthlessly revealing rather than euphonic. Maybe the woofers ring, I dunno.....I just know in a desktop rig.....pretty damn good sound. Because of the placement, it's never gonna have that 3D soundstage effect. I'm freeing myself from 'audio nervosa' and just enjoying what I have.
That might all change when I start putting my main rig together with Maggie LRS +Gr-Research crossover, driven by Odyssey Stratos monos, that Klaus is gonna upgrade to the uber version. Hopefully get an ANK DAC. (kit clone of audio note R2R tube Dac)
Cheers guys.....thanks for all the replies.