Thanks all for all the pointers/advice of late.

Ok so besides the advice here I also read more online, wathched vids, read the applicable section on Better Sound, used the Cardas calc and started over. I also got into my head "perfection and OCD mode" which helped.
The goal was to have the speakers disappear. I've read about this a lot and on youtube but have never heard this before. I think I got close but not quite.
I remeasured the lenth and it is exactly 20.00' which / 3 = 6.67. So I moved my speakers that far from the front wall and the chair that far from the rear wall (within a few tenths, I think wound up at 6.7 for each although since I was measuring from the curtain on the front wall it isn't exact but close).
Then came speaker width and somehow came up with 7.5 apart so I didn't have to move my chair and the speakers would be on that same line. The width is 17.5 which left 5' from the speaker to each wall. I think it somehow wound up at 5.17-ish. Oh and the toe was just outside each shoulder - not a lot of angle.
Then I got the ABB1s in today and set them up - 1 behind each speake and two in the middle although they are on the floor so not quite in thier ideal positions I think.
I then put on side 1 of the Wall (US promo

) where for the airplane crash and other sound effects and listened with a smile and then came on Mother and wow! Ok so now we are getting close.
I had a clear center image and some height (but not much) but very little depth, if any. hmm. The sound was fantastic though and although the speakers didn't disapper it was the closest I've heard.
So then I tried a few different albums and a 9' triangle which involved moving the chair and speakers towards their walls but did quick measures and fine tuning (not quite as OCD as the previous but close). The sound stage was obviously wider but a bit "thinner". But somehow sounded just as good - just different - maybe more like a live concert (sort of). Also wasn't deep.
Then 8.25 and sounded good also but not as good as 7.5 or 9.
Then my wife came home, volume down to 0.
With the GIK panels arrving tomrrow and no more seat time for the next 10 days I have to think about which I liked better - the 7.5 or 9 triangle. hmmm.
Hoping that w/ the GIK panels and then getting the ABB1s in place it will take a step further towards dissapearing and sound stage depth. Will do more reading also...