The room I'm playing in is roughly 12' x 17' but it's got three big doorways in it. The only other room I could set up in is easily 2x the size of this room.
Here's a shot of how I have things components placed. Please, don't rip me on cable management yet

I'm still on day 2 of getting it all set up.

This shot shows the different doorways in the room. The third doorway on the right opens up to a long hallway. So this may not be the greatest room for this. But I think the other room will just be too big. It's like 20-something feet by 30-something feet.

Sorry, guys. I threw you off with that previous picture. Those settings were not how I was running it.
Currently I have the Subwoofer setting on my Bluesound Node 2i set to "off".
My subsettings (and the sub is definitely working now):
PEQ: On
Gain: 0dB
Bandwidth: Medium/50%
Freq: 50hz (I think)
Delay/Phase: 0 (since I'm using a Highlevel sub connect)
Crossover: 80
Volume: Halfway to max
SubwooferLine in Low pass: 80hz
Rumble filter: Off
Extension FilterFreq: 28
Damping: Hi
I'm just adjusting based on what sounds good... but if I'm doing something wrong with my settings, please do tell me.
Any suggestions, guys?