Some random tips:
For those of us with asymmetric rooms, you will probably need asymmetric settings on each sub amp. The crossover point and volume on my left speaker are lower than my right but they measure almost exactly the same. The left side of the room has a wall with a normal door sized opening. The right side is one large opening.
If you can use REW, use it to confirm what you are hearing. If you use REW go very slow, one or two clicks on the crossover and volume will result in big changes if you are getting close to a room mode. I will quite literally take a measurement for each click on the crossover potentiometer watching the frequency response move up and down in order to find the point where it all goes haywire.
In setups where I have had stereo H-frames that are under the mains, adjusting phase has been a bad idea. I get wild swings in frequency response from minor adjustments and inexplicable nulls and peaks. It might sound great with one song and awful with a bunch of others. This has confused me a little because the voice coils on the subs are much further back than the voice coils on the NX-Ottica MTMs, the Super 7, and even the Super V. So it seems like a fractional adjustment should work but it doesn't. I guess bass wavelengths are too long to make any real difference here. I tend to leave phase on zero.
I know some folks have had success with phase adjustments but an "expert" explanation might be in order.