In general, it's always good to have power reserves. Too much power won't hurt you (unless you misuse it), but lack of it will mean compressed and modified sound.
So, if in doubt, always go for more powerful. Power does have its virtues, within reason, of course.
Regarding the question of additional investment into power transforers, capacitors, etc, I can attest to the very simple fact that this is money extremely well spent. It's precisely here that the industry at large tends to "save" money, ALWAYS at the cost of the sound. To get to the sound, you need the juice for it; you can't ask a man with a weak heart to run a marathon.
Which brings us to what would always be my prime motive for going DIY with class - it would allow me to invest the money where it counts, not in sexy displays, learning remotes, expensive adevrtisements, etc. This is exactly what differentiates kits such as AKSA from run-off-the-mill products, this is how they in good part manage to sound so good.
Just my 2 cents' worth.
Cheers,
DVV