Hi Rmihai,
With all due respect to your audio technician friend, the NAD 3020 and the AKSA are sonic "cousins"... sonically they are related, but one is fast, agile, wears extremely transparent clothing, and handles the high end and the low end in ways that you will never forget. The other cousin, while having something in common, is slower, more opaque, and much less interesting in the night with music.
Before I bought my first AKSA 55, I spent two years tweaking my old NAD 7020. I replaced all the wiring, all electrolytics were replaced with Nichicon muse or Black Gates, the power supply got FRED soft recovery diodes (huge difference), and I pulled the soft-clipping circuit (much better!). When I got done, I was very, very happy with the sound. I bought my first AKSA amp because I wanted to biamp, and I planned to use the AKSA for the bass, along with the 7020 for the tweeters.
When I first heard the AKSA, it was familiar, a cousin to the 7020 amp section, but very much more interesting. Speed, detail, transparency, layering, musicality, emotion, and bass were all way better than the 7020 (please don't accuse me of messing up the 7020 by the way... I tweak very slowly and deliberately. I reversed many a tweak because it was a step backwards).
So, IMO, your friend is correct... the two amps are "related". But topology is only one aspect of the design. Hugh has driven his amp to the edge of stability and (just like a jet fighter) this makes it extremely agile. You won't get that from NAD (and I like NAD gear... but I love Aspen gear).
I still have the 7020... my wife likes the simple controls and analog tuner section... so if you are ever in Minneapolis, I invite you for an evening of music comparing these two amps.
Best regards,
Peter