Woodsyi,
You're putting the cart before the horse. All rooms are different, even rooms with similar sizes. The room nodes, the speaker placement, the quantity and quality of the foundation/walls/ceiling, the carpeting/windows/wall coverings, the adjacent rooms. This doesn't even begin to consider your tolerances (i.e does a 37 hz trough bother you more than a 58hz peak). I'd not spend any $$ on EQ or amp/EQ before spending a few dollars on measurement devices (this should probably be in the acoustic circle). ETF is $150 or so and will not only measure your freq response at seating postion, but will also measure ringing and amount of time a bass note decays (through waterfall plots). Just hook it up to a laptop or whatever pc you can get near the room.
I had the advantage of first using the DEQX to measure my room (I didn't keep the DEQX but that was because of my highly-analog system, not the fault of the DEQX's DSP). My biggest issue is that I sit in the middle of my room in relation to the side walls, and sit in a 37hz null. I will verify with ETF.
Although the VMPS/Parts Express sub amp is an interesting idea (one EQ point at 37hz, bump that bad boy up 6 db), a true null is like a hole; it doesn't really get filled up with EQ boost, most just goes down the hole.
Soo, if I were you I'd measure the room, probably find a few troughs and a few peaks, then first treat the room with some traps (bass), blankets, Sonex (first reflections) whatever. Then, only then, would I throw electronics at it. Anything prior to these steps is shooting in the dark, IMO.
Ted