Again, thanks for all the replies,
A quick check of Agon reveals lots of good choices available.
Yes, I need to start auditioning. Arranging concurrent A/B testing would be the tough part.
rosconey: the two strikes against the Onyx CD-1 was due mostly to my ignorance, I just don't frequent his site as most of the stuff there just isn't my thing. I didn't know that MBL and Onyx had a business connection. Seems like a very good value, but spending $1500 on a $3900 player is only a good deal if the $3900 player sounds good.
zane9: I'm barely in the USA (2 hour drive from Canada), so please don't hold it against me.

Having a hard time wrapping my arms around all the different Shanling player options available here.
carlman: I really am a computer dummy, so an audio PC seems unobtainable at this time. Underwoodwally carries the EEMMCD w/ & w/o mods, shanling w/ & w/o mods, maverick w/ & w/o mods, quad, and modded denon so seems like he'd be the place to start.
TIC: I rarely visit the Audio Karma site/forum or even the Detroit area audio club's monthly meetings. That weekend is one I have 4 - 5 kids in the house, so I usually don't leave them. Besides we're building a house and trying to get this one ready for sale. So it doesn't look like its going to make my calendar.
ratbbb2: certainly are lots of folks pulling for the EEMMCD and at $900 I can see why.
Hoots: again its mostly a matter of my ignorance that I haven't latched onto the Onyx CD-1 more, see message to rosconey above. I have many of the same questions you do. Seems like the universal players could be more oriented to video and HT sort of audio priorities. As I mentioned, I already have the Empirical Audio recommended transport, the Sony DVP-S7700, and could complete it nicely for under $2000 with the dAck! v.2 DAC and mods, but I have no one's experience to go on with this pairing. As mentioned, I'm a simplier the better kind of guy too. And as an audiophile, sound is the top priority over features, etc.
All in all, a good problem to have indeed!
thanks again to all for posting.