Bart,
A high quality C&K Dual Pole Dual Throw (DPDT) switch, with gold plated contacts, would do the trick. These switches have two lines of three terminals each side; center is movable, top and bottom are make/breaks. You'd be switching at line level - around 1V rms - so you'd need to take care with shielding, preferably by building a little ferrous box around the switch. Use CAT5E cable to carry the signal, and switch the earth as well as the hot terminal, so left side center to amp, left top to TLP, left top to preamp; right side center to amp, right top to TLP earth, right bottom to preamp earth.
Such a switch would cost you about $US4. But the time to plan, connect and implement it would be much, much more of course.
Cheers,
Hugh