many thanks to everyone for the help ....
The DACT range is interesting and similar to the Goldpoint in that they both use larger steps at low volume and even 2 dB steps through most of the range. I still can't see how they can achieve such precision given that there can be gaps in the range of available resistors. I suppose that at least with pre-assembled types the volume of production allows them to order a number of one-off values.
As Greg says, Mouser has more Vishays than shown in their catalogue (the basis of the spreadsheet) but the unlisted ones are problematic in that they might need to be specially ordered/in lots of 100/expensive/etc.
Roderstein resistors from M. Percy have a much bigger range of values and make it easier to create something with desirable steps.
Step choice is interesting in itself. Given that the total has to come to 60dB and that it is desirable to have some steps of less than 2 dB it's necessary to have some bigger steps somewhere in the range. My own choice has been to arrange these at either end of the scale thus 4.8, 3.1, 2.9, 1.9, 1.3, 1.9, 1.6, 1.9, 2.1, 2.1, 2.1, 2.1, 2.1, 2.1, 2.1, 2.1, 2.9, 3.9, 4.0, 4.2, 6.0. [the starting point here is zero volume]. As you can see it is not smooth and I might still fiddle with it a bit both for overall style and for individual steps. This is a Roderstein set, a Vishay set would be more lumpy. I did think about a Frankenstein using mixed resistors and it might be a great way to compare their influence but sanity prevailed on that one and it stayed as an idea only.
Kyrill, thanks for the specific advice based on experience. Six months from now when you look at your wood work I'm sure it will look fine as an overall picture where now you are immersed in the detail
regards
Jules