Some on-line rack vendors:
http://timbernation.com/ampstand_PopUp.cfm (big heavy wooden racks)
http://www.brightstaraudio.com/ (one of the grandfathers in the business that seems to have the theory all together)
http://www.gingkoaudio.com/index.html (uses rubber balls and acrylic shelves)
http://www.pandathumbaudio.com/ (inexpensive pliable feet, Gary posts here often)
http://www.mapleshaderecords.com/index.php (purist recordings, lots of accessories, including monster maple versions of the TNT DIY flexy-rack)
http://michaelgreenaudio.com/ (big into "tuning", sells rack systems that clamp components)
http://www.neuanceaudio.com/index.html (sells well respected shelf replacements)
http://www.polycrystal.com/pc-mainframe.htm (sells solid surface like shelves)
http://www.silentrunningaudio.com/home.htm (the stealth based supports)
http://www.vibrapod.com/index.html (one of the original inexpensive pliable feet products)
http://www.audioadvisor.com/ (offers a wide variety of products)
Don't know your budget, but these products range in price from under $10 for a set of feet to thousands for a rack with built-in isolation features.
Personally I look for these features:
Quality of construction (at the price audionuts pay it better be well built)
Price (keep it in line with the cost of the rest of your system)
Flexibility (as you said, it could be with you a long time, so it'd better be adaptable)
Appearance (you gonna be looking at it, a lot)
High mass/rigid design to lower resonance (in the rack components and to load/couple each piece of equipment, few seem to account for this)
Provide for dampening of vertical movement (bouncy floors, few seem to account for this)
Use of a combination of different materials to cancel resonances
Relatively spread out support frame for better stability
Dampen self induced vibrations (such as turntable or CD motors, few seem to account for this)
Account for very small components (such as DAC's or pre-amps, few seem to account for this)
Avoid rollers as they cannot provide lateral stability (I've heard a couple of these products briefly and couldn't hear a real difference, and they're a PITA especially for turntables or CD players with heavy cables)
Summation:
I'm assembling a new system (with a budget in the neighborhood of $4,000) and feel that 20% is too much of the overall budget to allocate to equipment support/isolation. Based on the features I'm looking for I'll probably go with a simple, attractive, and well built rack and add pliable feet.