That's fine. Whatever makes you feel good. 
So, why are you SO interested in knowing exactly when and where I heard the TAD Ref 1s? I think your motive is exactly what I said it was. Answer my question.
And for everyone else, just so you know I'm NOT talking out my a$$, the Ref1s were at RMAF 2012 being demod with Peachtree's Grand Integrated. I got to stop by after hours and listen at length and to my own music I brought for demo. The acoustic space wasn't perfect and the amp's not as good as the $250k worth of TAD electronics that was driving the Evo 1s at RMAF 2013, but it was still a spectacular system and if I could own one speaker the Ref1s would be it.
For those not on a 6-figure budget I think the Vapors should be a top consideration. And even if you do, maybe Vapor will save you some cash
