Hi Krister,
Just saw your message.
I use the DCX2496 with great success on my upper echelon speaker systems.
The DCX is your best choice for active crossover duty, WITH EQ. You will eventually learn that 31 bands is not necessary for proper EQ. In my reference system I use just 3 EQ's: trap a single room mode in the bass, use another for overall bass level, and a PEQ in the mid treble.
Have a look at my site for more inside info on DCX real-world applications.