As far as I know, the LS100 is not really fullly Balanced - they put the connectors in for convenience. Also it reverses phase - make sure you switch positive and negative at some point.
I have the Lexicon MC12 (no HDMI), the Oppo 95, the LS100, and the Emotiva monoblocks as well. I let the Oppo do all decoding. I run the main stereo outputs to the HT Bypass on the MW, and the Multi channel outputs to the Lex. If I want to listen to Multi channel, i push the HT Bypass on the MW and use the Lex as the controller. For stereo or if I want to listen to 2 channel on a video, I just use the MW and leave the Lexicon off.
I have the speaker wires switched for phase at the back of the speakers.