Good point - but I would also say that an amp that is sensitive to speakers and other components is not a great amp. A great amp should do its job no matter what it is driving (OK, as long as it is not just an iron nail across the output terminals).
Nope. I disagree with you on this one. I'd rather have an amp that is better suited to a particular speaker than a jack-of-all trades amp.
I mean, c'mon, your "great amp" would exclude fabulous designs such as SETs and OTL amps. Not to mention the low-watt SS Class A FirstWatt beauties of Nelson Pass.
Even with much more conventional amps and speakers, I have found amp-speaker matching to be crucial. My SP Tech Minis (88dB or so) worked great with the Hybrid Butler 2250 I had paired with them, and didn't sound as good with the Rogue Stereo 90 (which was providing more than adequate power in my smallish listening room). My Von Schweikert VR-4s (~91dB) on the other hand sounded (and are sounding as I type) better with the Rogue Stereo 90 (now Super Magnum upgraded) than with the Butler 2250. Neither was terrible, but it was a nice improvement to really dial in an ideal match for my different speakers.
To each his own, I suppose.