Thanks Guys! Good suggestions!
Mike, that's a real interesting option with the tube rectifier. Sounds like a good compromise between using the rectifier solely as a soft start while keeping the speed of the diode rectification. In order in implement it in this particular design I'd have to add a 5v tranny (the power trans doesn't have 5v outs...). I was really hoping for a simple relay but those particular relays in the links are far more expensive than I can swing (the whole project will be around $250 - starting small here in my first diy trek).
Blair, I thought about the B+ on/off switch. That method is used all the time in guitar amps. I've never actually seen it used in hifi though. I'll keep that one in mind but I was hoping for an automatic, worry-free option. You're probably right about me being a bit overly cautious about the cathodes, esp. since there's no option put into the original circuit.
Zobsky, I've thought of the thermistor option but didn't think they'd give me the kind of time delay I'm looking for. Do you know roughly what kind of time delay they offer? I thought they only gave a second or two. Why would I need the relay to bypass it after warm-up? Do they not act like shorts once they're warmed up? Sorry for all the questions. I'm not very experience with the whole DIY thing and have very little knowledge of thermistors.
Thanks again for your help and all the great suggestions!