So I sold some old guitar equipment and scrounged up just under $400 to buy this missing component. Based on searching around on the net and CL I found 2 possible solutions:
1.) ROTEL RSX-1058 ($400 used) - this is a used unit but originally a much more expensive unit. It's more powerful but lacks the latest Dolby codecs for when I'm in HT mode. It also uses 1.1 HDMI standards which may cause issues down the road. However it'a high quality amp for a good price. I'd also consider using it to power my Alpha's and removing my power amp from the equation.
2.) Marantz NR-1402 ($390 new) - This is a less powerful amp but it has the lastest codecs. It's received good reviews across the board. Again, since I'll really only be powering the center/surrounds speakers with it when I'm in 5.1 mode, it doesn't have to have much power. I also like that it comes with a calibration mic and built in software. My biggest issue is choosing this one over the Rotel which has an even better reputation and may be able to power my alphas thereby cleaning up the system clutter a bit.
It's a dilema but I'm leaning towards the Marantz because Dolby TrueHD and HDMI 1.3 seem like significant upgrades that will be highly noticeable in a HT context. I would love to remove my power amp from the equation though so the Rotel also is appealing. oh the decisions!