Mitchell,
I live in the Tampa area, and you are more than welcome to spend as much time as you like at my home. I'll supply the food and drink - you just supply your ears. Any weekend would be fine (Saturday or Sunday).
And while my system is pretty much set up for vinyl playback only, I certainly don't mind you bringing a digital source with you (and as much music as you can stand). In fact, if your amp and/or preamp have balanced XLR connections, we can hook those right up as well. You know, as much of your own gear that we can try out (with the RM40s) will only benefit you in determining compatability.
Note my RM40s have the TRT capacitor upgrade, but does not have the FST tweeter (I make do with the dual spiral ribbon tweeters). Also, my Listening Room is dedicated, but pretty small (16 x 14 x 8 ).
As for Florida dealers, there was a dealer in St Augustine a year or two ago. He is not active on this board, so perhaps he is in hibernation. Brian would be able to give you the full scoop.
Let me know,
Kevin