Hi Don,
Thanks for letting us in on your thoughts as you plan your system.
Your approach, in fact, is pretty much mine also and that of many here.
To simplify, tubes add color to the sound which tends to 'humanise' the music. This is largely second and third harmonic, which are musical. A tube turns good sound into engaging music if the operating point is correctly chosen.
But you can go too far, chiefly by having too many tubes. As you've found, you can change the sound of a tube amp by simply changing the tubes, 'tube rolling' as they say. People can spend decades finding their preferences, and this is probably one reason audio forums are so prolific.
This is why in my two preamps, the TLP and the GK1, I use a single tube. Just a little color, not too much. I even choose a tube configuration, the cathode follower, which is known for extremely low distortion; I really only want almost immeasurable levels, which I know instruments struggle to detect but which the trained ear can pick up, particularly over a few days listening - the way we all listen to our systems.
So, your idea of stepping out the purchase with a volume control on the AKSA/Lifeforce and then eventually moving to a tube preamp is fine and will work well for you.
Cheers,
Hugh