Thanks to those of you who have responded. This is a really awsome experience. My quest for great audio has led me into an unknown culture of audio people. I have been overwhelmed by peoples graditude and willingness to share their ideas/thoughts. Many have PM'd me. Several have spent time over the phone with me. Your a very knowledgable group.
I have found myself trying to find the line between "the best" and $$$. This hi fi stuff can really suck you in. Of the speakers people have suggested, they all are upwards in price. It is a subtle hypnotic dance with a not so suble stair step up in price. Finding a stopping point is important. I was speaking with my wife (who has not been hypnotized) and her expression when she heard the bottom line $ of what I am looking at

helped to snap me back into reality.
How much is it worth for a sublte sound difference? How much product knowledge is enough? Can knowledge of "better"--better speakers, better amps, better %@**#&@--- color the experience of the present? If I am sitting with my new speakers can I fully hear and appriciate them while the seed is in my mind saying "what would the ________ speaker have sounded like compared to this one?"
So -- where is the stopping point for you all? How do you stop the upgrade idis?
Makes me wonder how those who engineer the equipment know where to stop.
And lastly-- I am about sold on the Odyssey equipment-- it's just the lingering question.. it the best sounding speaker for the price?
This is not about trust either-- it 's that darn, "everyones ear is different" thing that keeps the certain uncertain.
Will this question of "is this the best" ever go away? or is it something I (we) learn to live with?
For me, I suppose, at least until I hit the lottery? Then it's Sympony line baby
Yea I know--Just lighten up dude,
Thanks to everyone who has sent your ideas my way
Tony