From the options that you mention, the BDP-1, BDA-1, BP26 is the way to go. I was in a similar situation about "going digital" and after reading about computer digital servers, it didn't seem worth the hassle. I am presently in a state of system evolution but from the control point of view, IPAD and Harmony 1100 remote covers all of the control issues. I have an Apple TV, Cambridge IPad dock, BDP-1, Marantz universal player and Squeezebox touch connected to the BDA-1 and all controlled from my sofa. :>) On a 1 to 10 scale of audio/computer/digital expertise, I am about a 2.5. So, even though the Bryston system isn't totally without some growing pains, if I can do it, it's close to "plug and play".
My goal is to get it set up so that all music files with the possible exception of "radio" are contained in the BDP-1's external storage. After using the BDP-1 in my system for the past month or so, the idea of playing a CD seems archaic.
Steve