Thanks Jim!
Updated the first post with the following info:
Try, try, try to get these puppies more than 3 feet into the room. Read up on the AudioKinesis site about why this is important. In summary, it's due to the rear signal not being delayed long enough, which causes two bad problems - 1st, image smear, things tend to run together more than they should, optimally. 2nd, it causes tonal shifts that make it necessary to use more EQ than you would otherwise. By pulling them out to about 4 feet (measured from the front baffle, so not as far as you might imagine), you get a much smoother tonal balance and better imaging by default, so less messing around in the DCX. Always a good thing.
Since my upper mids are less re-inforced by the room now, I can also lower the point that I bring the bottom woofers in. I went from 200hz, to 150, to 120, to 100, finally to 80. Since the midrange driver goes down to 90 hz strong, I can use the bottom woofers at 80hz w/a shallow slope of 6db and get VERY strong mid/low bass now without it touching the midrange at all. The subjective result is that the presentation has change from a "lower midrange centered" presentation, a bit laid back, to one that is not mountain-stream clear, with tensile strength, jackhammer dynamics, and center-of-the-earth explosive bass. D@mn, and I thought it couldn't get any better!