I think the theory IS there. You are just either expecting to see something that isn't there, or not realizing it...
The key to understanding (accepting?) the whole approach is that it is a statistical problem. It isn't something you can pre-calculate. You have to use the in-room results, and do some trial and error to optimize them. The damping factors and modes are estimated by certain calculations, but anything deviating from the assumption to those calculations will skew the results ( a window, a doorway, a void space behind drywall, a closet, concrete behind your wall, actual rolloff of subs, etc) and therefore you can't computer model an optimum setup -if that is what you seek?
In realtime there are curves and cancelations going on all over the place.
Geddes does have an algorithm where [as a service to his customers if you buy his subs] he will calculate and set a dcx unit for you. But you have to record results of test tones taken in your room with his subs and he will tell you the setting for your subs in the behringer dcx. This is a little less optimal as the sub locations need to be firmly set for that, so you lose that degree of freedom in your optimization. You can't experiment with moving them to new locations to get a little better.
-Tony