Wrong! Read my post above. It cleary says that I look forward to your posting a new thread about your setup. 
Exactly. In another thread.
No not upset at all. In fact, you are entitled to your opionions and thoughts as anyone is on this site. "Better" speakers is subjective.
You're kidding me right? Do you not realize that there is scaling on the X and Y axis? It doesn't make a difference whatsoever. Look at the scaling and if it's the same as any other program it doesn't make a difference.
Data is Data
With the standards they do look different. Of course, the measurements are the same. Something that's zoomed out compared to something that gives a closer look, will seem different for the eye. Many don't bother to actually look at the dB difference. Like previously mentioned, you have a quite large deviation (everything is relative though) and you have two rather big cancellations/dips plus the extra energy at 2,5k. There's definetly room for some improvement. But that's good though. That means your system can potentially sound even better then what is does today.

When do your Abbeys, Harpers and subs arrive? Why are buying Abbeys if you think there are better speakers?
Harpers will arrive in March/May. Not sure about the subs. Abbey will not get here until the summer.
I believe they are outstanding speakers in their price range. I don't know any other speakers that has the same performance for that price. I can't afford speakers that cost many times more and I'm far from sure that they would sound
much better. The multiple subwoofer approach also seem very logical to me.