My solution to this dilemna was the purchase of the Parts Express sub amp that VMPS now offers with their subs. This allows an input from your surround sound processor where your processor sets the crossover frequency and and it also has separate inputs for your two channel rig where you adjust input levels and crossover for two channel to your preference, separate from your surround sound processor settings. You don't have to worry about running your mains through a crossover. Plus, the Parts Express amp even has an equalizer that adds further value. Add to that a great amp with 500 wpc into 8 ohms for not much more than the NHT crossover, the Parts Express Amp for me was a slam dunk that I've been happy with.
Corbin