The best thing for you to do is to get some nice Satin Black Oil paint. and brush it on with a decent brush. Think of it like painting trim in your house. That will give you a great look. Yes, you can use the Rotten Stone / Pumice approach is well, I almost did for my speakers, but I liked the gloss. The gloss, really isn't that distracting when you are watching a movie, in fact, I don't even notice it on my speakers.
For a real Piano look, it a matter of spraying a bunch of lacquer, a lot of awesome sanding, and the Rotten-Pumice-whataver. I've never done that, but I would like to someday.
caution caution. MDF edges will telegraph through paint over time--even with good priming. To combat that I filled the joints with a wood epoxy and then covered the whole thing with a liquid epoxy, so far so good. However, if the joints do show up again, you can always do a little sanding and re-paint.