We lost our baby

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pbrstreetgang

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #20 on: 11 Aug 2009, 05:38 pm »
Man, I sure will be thinking about your family. Cheers to better days

mgalusha

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« Reply #21 on: 11 Aug 2009, 05:46 pm »
My thoughts are with you and your wife, may you both heal quickly.

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #22 on: 11 Aug 2009, 05:50 pm »
Mr. C-

I'm very sorry to hear that sad news.  My wife is just at the end of her first trimester and I have been trying to not get to excited about the baby yet.  We have a couple of very close friends who have miscarried, more than once.  Now all three couples are proud parents, one just miscarried again when trying for a second child.  It is a hard thing to go through, but know that you are not alone.  I hope your wife is in good health again, very soon.  Best of luck to you.

Mariusz

Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #23 on: 11 Aug 2009, 06:04 pm »
I hope you get thru this difficult times with this little prayer:

My Lord, the baby is dead!

Why, my Lord?dare I ask why? It will not hear the whisper of the wind or see the beauty of its parents? face?it will not see the beauty of Your creation or the flame of a sunrise. Why, my Lord?

?Why, My child?do you ask ?why?? Well, I will tell you why.

You see, the child lives. Instead of the wind he hears the sound of angels singing before My throne. Instead of the beauty that passes he sees everlasting Beauty?he sees My face. He was created and lived a short time so the image of his parents imprinted on his face may stand before Me as their personal intercessor. He knows secrets of heaven unknown to men on earth. He laughs with a special joy that only the innocent possess. My ways are not the ways of man. I create for My Kingdom and each creature fills a place in that Kingdom that could not be filled by another. He was created for My joy and his parents? merits. He has never seen pain or sin. He has never felt hunger or pain. I breathed a soul into a seed, made it grow and called it forth.?

I am humbled before you, my Lord, for questioning Your wisdom, goodness, and love. I speak as a fool?forgive me. I acknowledge Your sovereign rights over life and death. I thank You for the life that began for so short a time to enjoy so long an Eternity.
-- Mother M. Angelica


Sincerely
Mariusz

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #24 on: 11 Aug 2009, 06:07 pm »
Nig, I'm so very sorry to hear the news. Give the wife a hug and be as supportive as possible. I'll pray for you all.
Peace be with you all, and the best of luck in the future.

Bob

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #25 on: 11 Aug 2009, 08:36 pm »
What beautifull words Mariusz.

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #26 on: 12 Aug 2009, 04:51 am »
Nig....

Sorry to hear of your loss.....

My thoughts are with you and your wife during this troubled time....all the best.

                   Chris




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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #27 on: 12 Aug 2009, 08:16 am »
Thanks for all your words of encouragement. It has been a hard time....the hardest we have ever had to face. It warms our hearts to see you guys rally around with kind words, thankyou so much. We are still picking our selves up, but our faith in God remains unshaken. Life seems full of trouble and strife at times, ........clarity will follow soon..............soon I hope. :?

Nig :(


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« Reply #28 on: 12 Aug 2009, 10:21 am »
Our thoughts are with you.

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #29 on: 12 Aug 2009, 11:02 am »
I am sorry to hear about the challenge for you and your wife.

I wish you all the best in your shared recovery.

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #30 on: 14 Aug 2009, 06:37 am »
Sorry to hear the sad news. Hope your wife get better soon. May God give strength to your family

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #31 on: 14 Aug 2009, 07:49 am »
My sincere condolences on your loss, I too have been through such a time and appreciate the grief that you experience at such a loss.   

Ian 

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Re: We lost our baby
« Reply #32 on: 14 Aug 2009, 12:08 pm »
Take care brother.

My ex and I went through a miscarriage and the loss of a 6 year old after living for years under the cloud of medical challenges.

Notice I said "ex".  The odds of a marriage surviving that much stress is about 10%.

Keep it light and breezy.  Avoid making any big decisions.