If you were only using the EC DAC. then a digital EQ solution (digital in / EQ / digital out) would give you the EQ needed, while retaining the sonic quality of your dac. In that case, something like the Behringer DEQ2496 would fit you very well. You may want to check my brief review at Audioasylum.
Things are a little more complex because you have both analog and digital sources, and so the analog -> digital -> EQ -> digital -> analog chain has to be good, and that's the domain of the higher end EQs, or a very carefully modded Behringer. Since your Silverlines go pretty deep, unless you have some HP filter on them, the EQ needs to be on both the Silverlines and the REL. Otherwise, with HP filter, the EQ only needs to be applied on the RELs, and the ultimate transparency of the EQ will be less of a factor.
At the moment, my DEQ2496 has -14dB dialled in at 56Hz (1/10 octave notch). That's something that would be very difficult to do with just traps, I think.