Dan,
Trust your ears. Opinions are like A$$holes-everyone has one. I have wasted soooo much money it's ridiculous based on other people's opinions. System synergy is, in my opinion, the most important aspect. You will always find someone that thinks an item is the holy grail and someone that thinks it's garbage. We all have different tastes and are trying to accomplish different things in our systems. I bought Gallo 3.1's, Dali Heicon 400's, Thule IA 350, Modwright swl 9.0, Genesis I60 monoblocks, Channel Islands D200's etc...based on other people's opinions. I don't own them anymore. They all had merit but aren't my cup of tea. Synergy is my highest priority and if I trusted my ears I would have already put a reference system together.
Dave