I have set..
the xo to 40hz
the low pass to 50/24
the extension to 20hz
and the damping to hi
also the peq is on +3
20% bandwidth
at 25hz.
if i set the extension to 14hz the woofers just seem to move a hell of a lot more for no audible result.
Over all I am disappointed with the result so far, the sub seems to add almost nothing that my mains are not already capable of on their own... in fact below the 35hz that my mains work to already, there seems to be nothing but large cone motion.
from 35hz up to 55hz the sub does add something however I don't even need it working in this range.

I still have more 'playing' with regards to settings, but as for room placement there is really no other options for it.
Plan B will be a large sealed box, though i'm not sure how large it will need to be with these woofers being made for a OB.
Of course if i have the wrong version of the amp please tell me what to look for so I can confirm, I should have no problems identifying capacitor or resistor values or what not on the circuit.