the car, audio comparison is not applicable
Sorry if this comes across as discourteous, but I don't think I can let you get away with the passive-voice here. When you say that the analogy is not applicable, you mean that
you wouldn't apply it. I would (in fact I believe I did), which automatically makes it as applicable, by a vote of one to one, thanks.

So, listen: You've got a bunch of different brands of car out there, right? And they're all supposed to start, drive, turn left and right, stop, and shut off. Some of them are supposed to be more fun, and a lot of those are also more expensive. But very few of the ones that are more expensive are both more fun
and more reliable. Indeed, most of the cars that are the most expensive and fun are some of the least reliable: it was the driving enthusiasts, after all, and not the home-audio enthusiasts, who coined the phrase, "if you wanna play you gotta pay."
Fortunately for me, there's at least one brand out there that's both more fun and more reliable -- if not also quite as much fun as the most-fun ones, so I can and do choose to drive that one. Now. Call the buyer of that car the "high-end but perform-at-all-costs" customer, okay? Surely you can't say there isn't such a customer because you're talking to one right now. At which point, the analogy
IS applicable, because it begs this very simple and as-yet unanswered question:
Which brand of home audio equipment does our "high-end, perform-at-all-costs" customer buy?
In my experience at least, the most-expensive, most-fun ones are also the ones least likely to do what it says they'll do on the wrapper. The fact that there isn't an option out there (or at least doesn't seem to be) is, I think, an indictment of the SOTA. I think there's a lot of stuff out there being crashed to market because the manufacturers know that the name-cache, the headlong rush to early adoption, and the not insignificant psychological reward of having shelled out a lot of moolah for one's gear, will in the minds of many audio enthusiasts trump any incidental issues with bugs.
All I'm saying is that, just as I wish I didn't have to be the only person who refuses to have a cell phone until they can be reliably expected to deliver an uninterrupted, intelligible phone call, I also wish I didn't have to be the only person who gets pissed off when he has to disconnect his speaker wire before every single time he powers-off his $2,200 amplifier.