A lot of stuff to address........
Vibrations and jitter:
I have measured the effects of crystal sensitivity to vibrations. Not a big a problem as you might think. Does not mean that reducing vibrations does not have other advantages. Just doesn't do much to jitter. Something else is going on.
The power supply:
If you read the link on oscillator phase noise, you will run across a term called FM flicker noise. The Q of the crystal, while high, is not infinite. Noise, including PSU garbage, can FM modulate the signal. It has to be clean, or else you get sidebands.
DVD players have nasty clock schemes that involve fractional-N PLLs and other stuff to come up with all the clock frequencies required. The problem in one of them is worse than in CD player. A lot more stuff going on inside........switching supplies........PLL clock gens.....
Not saying it won't help. I am saying it is not that big of a problem in stand-alone CD players.
SPDIF:
It is flawed. Period.
You will have 2 things that enter into jitter. One is the inherent jitter, related to the PLL. That is a number that will always be there. Can't go lower without some "fix" downstream. The second is additional jitter that is dumped on top of that by impedance mismatches.
Cables not only affect the amount of the mismatch, but depending on the length, it could ameliorate it by making the reflections arrive after the decision point.
The "best" way to deal with jitter must first start with the cause. The simplest way is a stand-alone CD player. Less issues to deal with.
SPDIF......lots of ways. Outboard devices that have been discussed can solve most of the problems. The only real way is to buy DACs that are designed to fully deal with the issue. It is not something simple that the average listener can do themselves.
Pat