I'm a goodly sized fan of Steve Herbelin's Herbies products (I have and use his tube dampers, CD damper, Way Excellent TT Mat all to great effect).....but the Big Black Dot was a big black
loser 
My 31 x 8 x 9.5" (small, 40 lb) floorstanders never sounded
worse than with those black dots under them. I don't know if using the dots as de-coupling from your stands with monitors may have a different effect, but mine was decidedly poor. I bought 8 brass screws and nuts to install under my speakers (poor man's de-coupling) and it was leagues better. I'm about to either get some heavy weight brass cones or install a 2-4" thick maple bass with brass footers to rigidly spike to the floor, under the speakers now.
You simply don't want a mechanical item (speakers and turntables) shaking
at all it seems....while I have had good results with all matters of sorbothane and sticky-goo-ball-type things under electronics (Isonodes, LAT International Vibra-Killers, etc).
I think speakers benefit from
rigid coupling....not spring-y or bouyant coupling and isolation like those offered by The Big Black Dots (which is made of a harder material than the other Herbie's stuff, but not hard enough). You might be best off with a thick maple block buffer between your monitors and your stands, I'd think.
Mapleshade Records sells quite costly amp/speaker stands (or, interfaces)....Timbernation.com sells far less costly versions.
There's probably a lot of theories on why...I can only relate my experiences, however

Ciao,
John / TheChair
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