I don't know your ancillary components, but I own the Merlin VSM-Ms w/ upgraded Bam and the lead free jumpers and power cord for the Bam. I recommend getting the speakers further out from the front wall as others have suggested. I would also recommend experiementing with the toe-in. I know that the Merlins come with alignment tool, but sometimes one's equipment, room and tastes may suggest a different angle than the alignment tool dictates. As for the listening position, its true that Merlin recommends approximately 9 1/2 back for best performance. I cannot tell you why, but that does not work in my room. I have my speakers approx. 6.25' apart and I sit approx 7 1/2' from the speakers. I use a slight toe in. The sound is never forward. I can hear the clinical nature when I move the listening position further back or increase the toe in, but at my current placement, I would not call the sound clinical by any means. On the contrary, the sound is quite seductive. I do use some mild room treatments such as a combination of a Room Tunes Pac and the Eighthnerve Adapt Triangles. What I've noticed most from the use of the treatments is how clean, clear and open the sound became, in addition to being able to play music louder without a sense of strain or harshness. Nonetheless, I don't recall experiencing forwardness or clinical sound before using the treatments so I would suggest experimenting with placement before anything else. Before I had the Merlins, I owned several of the Magnepan line. The Merlins do not have the transparency of the Maggies, but I find them more involving and intoxicating than the Maggies (for me, at least). Merlins have flaws and compromises like any speaker, but they have excellent tonality, nice dynamics, and a wonderfully deep soundstage. Although there are aspects I could complain about, I still find them to be very very enjoyable. Good luck.
System: Merlin VSM-M, Musical Fidelity A5 CD player, Mapletree Audio Design Ultra 4A preamp, Music Reference RM-10 tube amp, Rega P2 turntable w/ RB300 tonearm.