Pete -
...but the thing Brenda and I both noticed was how we didn't notice it was there (sound, not physically that is).
You bring up a very important point. The first time I hooked up a full complement of Veracity speakers in my home theater and watched a movie, I noticed something about half way through. I was completely unaware of the speakers.
With home theater, "suspension of disbelief" is a very important aspect of a fully engaging cinematic experience. If you notice how good the speakers sound, you are not fully engaged. A failure to notice them is extremely important.
It makes no difference if you are listening to a movie soundtrack or great music. Your attention should never be drawn to the speakers, but rather you should be fully engaged in the experience. That is the best indication of how well your set-up is performing.
- Jim