I'm about to start playing with RadioShack SPL meter, Creative USB sound card into notebook PC and RPlusD (the replacement for the better-known program "ETF"). A calibrated mic would presumably do a more accurate job, but I'm more interested in relative changes brought about by room treatments/speaker placement.
Sorry can't be of help in comparing any of the software out there.
SPL meter was oh, $50-60 ?, USB soundcard ~ $50 and software $150.