OK John, now I have yet more niggly detail questions on this whole RCA/XLR subject -
1) Do I understand you correctly that at the inputs, the TAP does the:
balanced -> single-ended conversion when using the single-ended outputs,
OR single-ended -> balanced conversion when using the balanced outputs? [Did I say that right

]
2) If this is the case, does the TVC always work in balanced or single-ended depending on the output?
3) Do I also understand you correctly [...sorry to over use the expression] that if you have a LO410 on the single-ended outputs [to isolate the ground] you can use both single-ended outputs [like for a subwoofer] and the balanced outputs at the same time?
The advantage of this configuration being that the balanced outputs are kept truly balanced at the same time you use the single-ended outputs? Otherwise, without the LO410, the balanced outputs would still work, but simply have that #3 pin to ground, thus not being truly balanced?

I have a headache...
I am sort of pulling some info together from different threads including this one. If this has already been covered I apologize.
Time for bed!