I'd say it depends, depends on the tubes, how hard they're being run, the circuit design, the usage patterns, and some other things I can't think of. At one end there's power tubes that are being run hot & right at the limit or even over it, and on the other end there's the small signal tubes which are barely turned on.
Using the incandescent lightbulb analogy, there's a million types of lightbulbs, you have dollar store specials, long life bulbs, halogen bulbs, night light bulbs, and they come in all sorts of wattages. Your average generic 100W bulb will burn constantly for a couple months or so before it burns out, it might last a year or so in typical use. A long-life bulb may last 2-5 times longer, and a halogen might last a bit longer than that. Now take that regular 100W bulb and run it at 20W or so, instead of being good for a couple thousand hours it's now good for a million or more. But if you do that to a halogen the gains won't be nearly as great since it requires high temperatures to work properly.
Going back to tubes, same basic idea. Some kinds of tubes last longer than others, and the kinder you are to them the longer they last. Some tubes need to be run near full power, others can loaf along in the barely turned on stage and last for decades that way.