The $995 NuForce AVP 16 is a Preamp/Processor, not a Receiver. It would require a power amp also, probably resulting in at least a $2000 investment.
I don't know if Charlie would want to spend that for "a DVD or VHS movie once every two months or so".
The Rotel RSX-1056 & 1057 are nice units. The 1057 is $1300 retail, and used RSX-1056's go for around $800-$900.
If that is too steep, I prefer the Denon & Marantz offerings over the Pioneer, Kenwood and Yamaha.