I'm in a similar position to Mike_c.
I was using my VMB-1s with a Sugden headmaster pre-amp. This set-up had loads and loads of gain, so I added some attenuators on the input into the amps simply to get some control over volume. Recently I decided to take the headmaster out of the chain, and now rely on the digital volume control on my (stock) SB2. It's certainly a cleaner experience, but not without an ocassional drawback. It can still play louder than I would ever listen, but the most amazing thing is that, even when cranked to louder volumes than I would ever use, the system sounds clear and articulate. Like Mike, though, I'm planning on adding a tubed pre-amp to the mix - probably a relatively low gain 6sn7-based unit from Space Tech Labs (which should help when I get my SB2 modified, and the voltage output roughly halves).
Chad