CA:
I messed with a Behringer EQ several years ago, using Thorsten's approach. It was good, but didn't take into account room response, which I never got a handle on.
I'm now using TacT RCS with a curve based on inputs from several folks. It is very similar to the one described by warnerwh. I do use the BBC dip at 2.5 K and it reduces "zing". With the TacT, I can bypass correction on the fly as well as access a bunch of other curves on the fly. The custom one with BBC dip is the fullest and easiest to listen to, based on a number of opinions.
Of course, TacT does take room effect into account.
Regards,
Larry Welsh