Rob, what kind of size/weight are you talking about here?
IMO UPS can kiss my ass (and I'm being very, very, very polite with that comment).
DHL can join them too. But at least DHL paims their claims quickly, just not for anywhere near what it was insured for. So if you use DHL insure it for 3-5x what it'd cost to replace. Then they might not fuck you over.
If you pack things yourself well, FedEx & USPS do fairly well for getting things where they're supposed to be and not too beat up if your packing is good.
DO NOT USE PACKING PEANUTS!Those are worthless, even more so for heavy objects as they compact and/or move out of the way so that there's nothing between the object & the box.
Airbags/densely crumpled newspaper/expanding foambags/large bubble buble wrap are all much better alternatives. As are other such packing materials. There should be some give to them, but not too much. And the packing material shouldn't be able to move or compact itself too much.
I don't think FedEx has any type of thing like UPS does as far as having them pack it and paying out insurance claims. So there's not much incentive IMO on having them pack something (especially since most of those people/places think that packing peanuts are fine for packing everything).
I'd personally pack it rather well myself (tripple boxed if possible using some method that I vaguely described above) and send it via FedEx 3 day. FedEx ground might work, but the less time they have it the less chance that they'll destroy it.
If they're really large then maybe something like Forward Air would be better. They're great for stuff that gets put on a pallet.
Without knowing the specifics of things better I can't say what's the best way to go. I've had lost of experience shipping and receiving things of all sorts all over the world. And I've always gotten the highest compliments on my packing from people I've sent stuff to. Ask Wayne, he thinks I should get a job teaching people at these different packing/shipping companies how to pack something right...
