Chris:
I'm with Scott on this one. I haven't tried the Aurelex, but I've heard they work pretty well. Sure, you could do all sorts of cool DIY stuff, but you'd have to invest quite a bit of time and money. One trick that might be nearly free would be concrete patio slabs under the sub. They won't decouple, but they'll mass load the floor at that point, making it harder for the sub to "excite" it. You could perhaps try using both tricks indepenently, and then together to see what works best.