Cardas Quad Eutectic Solder is what was suggested to me.

JCarney
That solder works well, it was recommended to me as well and it’s all I use now.
I struggled to solder tube connectors at first as well, but getting a lot of solder on your tip and use a larger chisel tip with more heat, 850 is where I set my iron. Give the wires time to heat, if you are concerned about overheating components, use clip on heat sinks to give you peace of mind. I also use flux to help the solder flow, you should be able to see it flow all the way through the tube connector.