Depending on your router, you may be able to see the transmission/reception rates in realmtime. It won't show it by device, but will show the overall traffic coming in/out.
If you can do this, just monitor it while streaming to get a feel for what us actually happening.
I just tried it: when streaking netflix on my tablet the initial speed shoots up over 150mbps. It then drops to under 10mbps. Then every few seconds, it goes up to 50mpbs for a second, then drops down. I'm guessing the app is downloading several seconds of video in chunks while playing.