I think I've figured out what I'm going to do and I think I've learned a few things.
I think I already have a pretty good room. Feedback from friends agrees. I have tall ceilings and "no side walls". I don't want the room to be any deader than it already is... I think I just need to see what happens with more diffusion on the front wall. After I get OB subs, I will see how they like the room and whether I need to put some sort of absorption somewhere for bass.
I'll have wood diffusers on the front wall at the reflection points, then maybe foam diffusion of some sort that I can lightly hang on the TV, as needed. I came across this place below on Amazon, but they are out of Colorado. Quite a few different designs.
I've noticed that quite a few others are doing the standard QRD diffuser design... i.e., horizontal diffusion, and not as much vertical. It's interesting to compare what they show for diffusion coefficient between the Triangle design and the Quadratic Residue Well. I would have guessed the Triangle design would scatter more than the "channel" design of the QRD Well design. Whatever the case, I wonder how big a difference exists when you actually listen to the variations.
https://www.soundassured.com/products/wood-acoustic-diffuser-wood-acoustic-diffusion-panel-60-x-60-cm?variant=41782131589278